Mental health & healing
What you experienced was not normal, and what you are feeling is a completely normal response to something that should never have happened. Healing is not linear, and there is no timeline you should be measuring yourself against.
What to know first
- Trauma from abusive relationships can show up as PTSD, anxiety, depression, difficulty trusting, or physical symptoms. All of this is real and all of it is treatable.
- Trauma-informed therapy is different from regular therapy. The therapist understands how trauma works and moves at your pace. You'll never be pushed.
- You don't have to be in crisis to access support. Therapy, peer groups, and community programs are there at any stage of healing, including long after you've left.
- Victim Services programs in every province offer free, confidential counselling for survivors. You qualify as a victim of a crime.
- Peer support — talking with other women who've been through similar experiences — can be just as powerful as formal therapy. You're not alone in this.
- Your kids may also be carrying the weight of what happened. Child-specific trauma therapy is available and often free through victim services.
Canadian resources
Canadian Mental Health Association
Find your local branch
cmha.ca
Victim Services
National Victim Services Directory
National directory — search by province
BounceBack
Free guided self-help through CMHA
bouncebackontario.ca
Kids Help Phone
For your children or teens
kidshelpphone.ca
Maple
Virtual therapy, many plans covered by insurance
www.getmaple.ca
YWCA Canada
Emotional support and healing groups
ywcacanada.ca
IPV survivor support groups
Search '[your city] IPV survivor support group' for peer-led community programs
Wellness Together Canada
Free 24/7 mental health support
www.wellnesstogether.ca