Divorce & separation
Leaving a relationship is hard enough. Understanding the legal side on top of it can feel overwhelming. Here's what you need to know to start, one step at a time.
What to know first
- In Canada, you can separate without any legal document. The date you decide to separate is what matters legally. Write it down.
- Divorce is federal (Divorce Act), but property, custody, and support are governed by your province. You can deal with these before or without a divorce.
- Canada's Divorce Act was updated in 2021 and now requires courts to consider family violence in all parenting decisions.
- You don't need to agree on everything before separating. A lawyer or mediator can help you work through the details.
- A protection order or restraining order can be part of your separation if you are at risk. This can happen quickly through your local courthouse.
- Don't sign anything (even a 'friendly' agreement) before getting legal advice. It can affect your rights.
Canadian resources
Legal Aid (every province)
National directory of provincial legal aid offices
National directory — search by province
JusticeNet
Reduced-fee lawyers across Canada
www.justicenet.ca
Steps to Justice
Plain-language family law guides (Ontario)
stepstojustice.ca
Clicklaw
BC family law information
www.clicklaw.bc.ca
Family Violence and the Divorce Act
Federal government guidance
www.justice.gc.ca
Legal Information Society of Nova Scotia
www.legalinfo.org